Y o u r L i f e A n d D r e a m s R O Y M A T H E W S

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Life is in many ways......

Life is in many ways unpredictable, and that can be one of its greatest blessings. Imagine how tedious and monotonous life would be if it were completely predictable. The surprises in life keep us from becoming too complacent. Life’s unpredictable side continually presents us with new possibilities and new opportunities for growth.

If you knew exactly what was going to happen today, and tomorrow, and the next day and the next, it would soon grow quite tiresome. Thankfully, life is new and different from day to day, from moment to moment.

Yes, some of those unpredictable surprises will be unpleasant. Some of them will present great difficulties and challenges. Sometimes it can be tempting to wish that things would always stay the same. Yet such a life would offer few, if any, possibilities for joy and fulfillment.

Think not of how difficult it is to adapt to the new, the unpredictable, the changing conditions which are indeed a fact of life. Think instead of how truly blessed you are to be able to adapt, to learn, to grow, and to experience the newness and uniqueness of each and every day.




Tuesday, March 27, 2012

It Works...






It creates more wealth. More Success More Joy, Better health. More Inner Peace. More Confidence.
It's Positive Thinking.
And it's something you have to practice everyday.


You can't think positive once in a while.
You can't wait until things go wrong to apply positive thinking.
It won't work as quickly as you want.
It may not even work at all.

That's because you first have to change the thought process that led to the situation you're in.
And you can.
It's actually pretty easy.
It just requires a little discipline.
Positive thinking will change your life.



Positive thinking means filling your mind with positive thoughts.
You have to carry a positive attitude.
You have to speak positive words.
You have to remain optimistic even when things don't work out.
You have to appreciate your life.
You have to remain optimistic.

To get results with positive thinking you have to apply it everyday.
But you've got a mind filled with negative thoughts.
You think about how things don't work out for you.
You have doubts.
You're not appreciating your life.
You complain and think about what's wrong.

You magnify mistakes.
You get pessimistic.
And so you continue to struggle and can't get ahead.

If you're not getting what you want then you're more negative than positive.
That needs to change.

And you have to develop a positive thinking pattern.
Push yourself to find positive situations everyday.

Say positive things.
Stop complaining.
Be optimistic.


Get rid of the negative thinking And get rid of the limiting thoughts and beliefs.
You have to do this everyday.

That's because everyday you're sending instructions to your subconscious mind and inner powers.
Those instructions are your thoughts, beliefs, attitudes and conversations.


When your thoughts, beliefs, attitudes and instructions are positive your subconscious mind and
inner powers create positive situations.


With the right kind of positive thinking you'll have more success.
More wealth.
More happiness.
Better health.
And you'll enjoy life.

Develop positive thinking so that it works.

Practice positive thinking so you get results.
Change the way you think and see things
Everyday do a mental checkup.

Think about what you want to achieve or have.
Then track your thoughts.

Replace the negative thoughts.
Track your conversations.
Instead of saying something negative say something positive.


Track your attitude - you might be surprised at what you find.
If you have a doom and gloom or negative attitude you need to change that.

You need to develop a positive attitude and this means changing the way you see things.

Focus on the positive.
Force yourself to think about the positive in every situation, especially those that don't work out.

By being positive and by thinking positive you give your subconscious and your inner powers a new direction.
You push them to bring you positive outcomes everyday.
You get your subconscious and inner powers to bring you what you want.



It all starts with you!!!


There's no reason to struggle.

You can enjoy success.
You can live the life you want.
You can have that great relationship, that better job, a better business...

You can live in the home you always wanted and you can be the confident person who succeeds all the time - start today !!!




"My life is like a fire."

"Now I a fourfold vision see,

And a fourfold vision is given to me:
'Tis fourfold in my supreme delight
And threefold in soft Beulah's night
And twofold always, may God us keep
From single vision and Newton's sleep!"


Fourfold vision is to single vision as ordinary sight is to blindness. We all experience single and threefold vision. It's twofold and fourfold vision that one must consciously work to achieve.


A hardheaded, common-sensed, rational man sees with his single vision. To him, a man is a man, a tree is a tree, a rose is a rose, and a dog is a dog. The idea that imagination could create reality would be sheer nonsense to him, and he would think you mad if you tried to tell him so. Being rational, the single-vision man lives in a world where things are what they seem to be. In that world everything can be weighed and measured, a minute is sixty seconds, and a pound is sixteen ounces - no more or no less.

Twofold vision occurs when everything is seen as an image. I have stood before a fireplace and enjoyed its warmth and light. I have watched the flames leap up and subside, fall into embers, then turn into ash and - to all appearances - vanish. And I have said to myself: "My life is like a fire." At that moment I achieved a simile. I didn't stop there, however, but said: "Life is fire. My life is fire." Having achieved a metaphor, I dropped the "is" and said to myself, "Life and fire are similar. I will never again see one and not see the other, or feel one and not imagine the other." At that moment I had achieved a symbol, a poetic image. Fire is now an image which reminds me of life.


"All things transient are but images." Is there anything here that is not transient? I have a friend who recently discovered two love birds had nested near his window, with three eggs in their nest. My friend now has fourteen days of waiting for them to hatch out. They will come forth, much to his pleasure, wax, wane, and then vanish. They, like all things transient, are but symbols; and if you will but turn the object seen into its symbol, twofold vision will be yours.



Threefold vision is yours when the images begin to dream, to have love affairs, marry, and beget. Your dreams of the day and night are threefold vision.
Your moods are your dreams in daylight, forming a threefold vision. Capture a mood which would imply the fulfillment of your desire, then become so intense in that threefold vision that you enter your fulfilled desire, and you will move into fourfold vision.



Now, this world has become the stream of reality. Knowing this, start to assemble images in your mind that, if true, would imply the fulfillment of your desire. Let the images play together, interweave, fall in love, and reach fulfillment.







Sunday, March 25, 2012

Transforming Anger into Willpower!




Anger is energy. It is a feeling that is a part of our emotional life. Anger can become your greatest enemy debilitating your health and producing negativity. When anger is understood and transformed it can become your greatest ally toward healing and finding personal peace.


Anger is one of the most misunderstood and commonly repressed emotions. When you understand the true nature of anger, you can begin to harness a lost power of your will. Will power is the key to create permanent and positive changes in your life. It all hinges upon how you relate to your emotions. Before we explore transforming anger it is important to clarify "positive" and "negative" emotions.



Emotions are a feedback system offering guidance in our daily lives. They inform us of what we need to do in order to feel secure and peaceful. In childhood we learned to judge our emotions and placed them into two categories, positive (good) or negative (bad) emotions. We labeled any feelings that are constrictive such as fear, guilt, and loneliness as negative and bad. The expansive emotions like love, joy, and happiness were identified as positive (good). The challenge for you is to redefine your relationship with all your emotions and change the way you relate to them. Here is how to do that.


You’ll experience an empowered relationship with your emotions when you redefine them. Negative emotions are any emotion (love or fear) that you ignore, deny, and repress. Regardless of their names, all emotion becomes negative when you refuse to feel and express them.

Eventually, all repressed emotion explodes into a rage, either inward or outward rage. It is the repression of emotion that causes its destructiveness, not the emotion itself. Likewise, love that is repressed can be just as destructive as anger. Emotions are energy that needs to be felt and expressed respectfully.



Positive emotions are any emotion that you honor (own), feel, express and release, appropriately. When you respect your anger as much as your love, you will have matured your emotional intelligence and begin to take dominion over your life.


We’ve been brain-washed from childhood to judge anger as a bad emotion. Like all emotions, anger is meant to be felt, expressed and released... appropriately. Repressed anger always has negative impact in our lives. Addictions, worry, self-doubt, and powerlessness increase when anger is repressed. When anger is released these negative experiences will decrease rapidly. Also, within all anger there is a hidden resource of willpower. The energy needed to end procrastination and take charge of your life, can be found d when you tap into and release your anger.

How to Create a Healthy Relationship with Anger.

It is important to recognize the value of both your constricting and expanding emotions. The purpose of anger is to offer you feedback. Anger is a messenger communicating to you that change is needed. For instance, if you feel angry with a person then something about that relationship needs to change. Perhaps you are not being respected or understood. Pretending you are not angry only compounds the negativity.


Being honest with yourself is the key to harnessing the power of your emotional nature. When you let go of your judgment and honestly feel your constricting emotions you'll quickly express and release them. Then, the energy trapped inside can become a constructive force in your life.


Four Steps to Transform Repressed Anger into Willpower:



The 1st Step: Take responsibility for your anger (own it) and begin to feel it. This allows you to connect with it and begin transforming it into a positive experience. By realizing this simple truth you can begin to lift anger out of its destructive and repressed state.


The 2nd Step: Express your anger in writing. Take some paper and write at the top of the page, "Me and My Anger". Write the first thing that comes to your mind about anger. Write in a free association style. Don't worry about grammar, sentence structure or spelling. Express your anger by writing down your thoughts and feelings.



For example you might start to write: "This exercise is stupid. I don't believe I'm doing this! Trying to write down my anger is so frustrating... I feel stuck, like I'm back in fourth grade... blah, blah, blah."



Let the thoughts and feelings roll out of you! Don't assess or judge your words. This may feel awkward at first, but soon it will start to flow out of you in a stream of consciousness. Before you know it, you’ll tap into the anger trapped inside your subconscious mind and release it.



After 20-45 minutes the constricting feelings will shift and lift to a peaceful feeling inside of you. When that happens destroy the paper, tear it up, burn it or flush it down the toilet. Next take a break and go do something you enjoy. Relax in a hot bath, go for a walk, enjoy your favorite movie, do something fun. This will help you lift beyond these feeling into a more expansive space. Give yourself at least 2 hours and up to 24 hours to relax before you move on to the third step.



The 3rd Step: Express your anger imaginatively. This is an important step to free your mind. It involves using your imagination to unhook the negativity from your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind does not know the difference between something you imagine and something that really happens.



For example: Have you ever sat in a movie theatre and watched scary images on the screen that caused you to tighten up with fear and become anxious? Logically, you knew you were safe because you were surrounded by a hundred other people. However, your subconscious mind didn't distinguish the images on the screen from what was really happening to you. This is how the body-mind connection works. Your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between what you imagine and what physically happens to you. Your subconscious mind reacts the same in both situations.



Guided Imagery Technique to Release Repressed Anger



Close your eyes and imagine the person that you are angry at standing before you. This person may have died long ago it might be a boss, a parent, someone who pissed you off. Tell them in your mind how angry and upset you are. If you need to act it out, then act it out- imaginatively! If you were so angry you could have kicked and spit on them, then in your imagination, kick and spit on them! Play it out. Now is your chance to vent the pent up energy from your subconscious mind! Don't hold back. The more vivid you imagine this with honest feelings, the more effective it will be.


Tip: If it is difficult for you to express old anger from your childhood then let your inner child express their feelings. Let the angry part of you, your child, adolescent or teenager express the feelings they had never released.


You may be worried that if you vent your anger in meditation, you’re somehow sending negative energy to the person. Remember, your intention is where energy flows. Your intention is to transform anger into a positive energy. Once your subconscious mind has vented your anger, you can easily forgive and let go. Let the angry part of you act out the feelings don't hold yourself back. Honor the angry part of you and it will set you free.


The 4th Step: Forgive whoever angered you. Forgive them and let them go. Again, you can do this in your imagination, simply imagine them in your mind and tell them, “I forgive you.” I am letting you go. You don’t have to talk to them physically but you can effectively forgive them in your mind, where it really matters. Forgiveness will come easily once the anger has cleared from your mind.

If you have difficulty forgiving them, then go back and see if there is more anger you still need to release. Once you have forgiven them and yourself (for attracting this negative experience) decide what positive energy you'd like to experience more of in your life. Do you desire greater self-determination, discipline, and creativity? Visualize how you want to feel and be. Imagine yourself back in the flow, empowered and feeling great with a renewed ability to be focused, productive and creative.





What Winners Do...

What Winners Do...


It would be easier to believe that successful people are just "born that way".

I remember hoping that was the case. I desperately wanted an excuse to explain why I was broker than broke. I wanted something to blame when things didn't go my way.



But that's not the answer ..........


Winners live in the same world as everyone else.


Winners have the same frustrations. Winner's have the same fears and doubts. And, most importantly - winners are trained - not born!!!!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

The Honey Bee

Look at Honey Bee. It works so hard flying from one flower to


another collecting honey. And then it also builds a nice bee

hive. It still continues to work hard and gets more honey.



And then a guy comes and breaks open the bee hive to get the

sweet honey. The bees after that also really does not think too

about it and then goes about building one more.



This is very similar to what happens in life. You cannot really

focus on all the wrong things in life especially the ones in the

future! You need to work hard to get results and expect the best.

Even if there are other challenges, just keep working more and

focus on your higher goals!



Wednesday, March 21, 2012

LIVE THE ANSWER NOW

Although your dream may seem impossible, invite it into your consciousness by feeling it is real.Enter a mood and watch the thoughts that come to you while there. Dare to believe you have what reason and your senses deny. Persist in your assumption and it will harden into fact. Try it and see!

Monday, March 19, 2012

They're on their way.

They're on their way.

Every year I get better at controlling them.
And this time I'm keeping them out. They're weeds.

And with Spring here early I have to be prepared, take control of my lawn and get rid of the weeds
or they'll take over and destroy my yard.
Your mind and subconscious mind work the same way.
Your negative thoughts are like weeds. They get planted on your subconscious mind.
Then they spread quickly if you don't control them. Before you know it you feel hopeless and give up.

Your mind is always active. It's always thinking of something.
Most of the time it has useless thoughts. Often it will have negative thoughts.

If you don't take control of your mind and get rid of those negative thoughts, they'll spread like weeds.

Your mind is your garden. You have to take care of it and maintain it.

What's in your mind will be reflected in your life.



A mind filled with negative thoughts (weeds) leads to a negative or difficult life.
A mind that is positive and optimistic leads to a positive and successful life.


To enjoy a happier, more successful and rewarding life you need to manage and take care of what's in your mind. Because what's in your mind is picked up by your subconscious mind and your inner powers.
They pick up on your thoughts, beliefs and attitude.

Change your thoughts, beliefs and attitude to reflect what you want in life and your subconscious and inner powers will bring you what you want.

So remove those negative thoughts. Change your beliefs so that you believe that
you can and will succeed. Don't neglect your mind.

Don't let those negative thoughts spread.

Once they spread they become beliefs.

Once you have negative or limiting beliefs life gets more difficult. Things get worse and it gets harder for you to turn things around.


So start today.

Track your thoughts and get rid of those negative thoughts.

Create positive thoughts.

Plant positive beliefs on your mind and subconscious mind.

Get your inner powers to bring you more of what you want
Your subconscious and your inner powers create your life.




They follow your thoughts, beliefs and attitudes.



What ever you regularly think you eventually believe.



Constant negative thinking leads to strong negative beliefs.

You then doubt yourself.

You lose confidence.

You don't think you can succeed.

You make the wrong choices.

You give up but you have to continue.



And then it gets worse.



Because when your filled with negative thinking and negative

beliefs, your subconscious mind and your inner powers

create more negative situations.



Before you know it you're creating more and more of what

you don't want.



And that's why life continues to get worse.

Then you believe that things will never get better

and so life gets even more difficult.



You want things to change but you can't turn things around.

So think about what you want.


Track your thoughts.

Monitor your beliefs.

Get rid of the negative thoughts.

Plant positive thoughts.

Your subconscious mind and your inner powers are always at work.


They're always creating and shaping your life.

They simply respond to your thoughts and beliefs.

Make sure you give them the right directions.

Give them positive thoughts and positive beliefs and

you'll enjoy a happier, more successful and rewarding life.






Sunday, March 18, 2012

"Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"

One day I decided to quit... I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality... I wanted to quit my life.


I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.



"God", I said. "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?" His answer surprised me...



"Look around", He said.. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?" "Yes", I replied.



When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed.



But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.

And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said.



"In the third year, there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In the fourth year, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. "I would not quit.." He said. "Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.



Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant... But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.



It had spent the five years growing roots.



Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."



He said to me. "Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots."



"I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. " Don't compare yourself to others .." He said. " The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern ... Yet, they both make the forest beautiful."



Your time will come, " God said to me. " You will rise high! " How high should I rise?" I asked.



How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return. "As high as it can? " I questioned.



" Yes. " He said, "Give me glory by rising as high as you can. "



I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you. He will never give up on you. Never regret a day in your life.



Good days give you happiness

Bad days give you experiences;

Both are essential to life.



A happy and meaningful life requires our continuous input and creativity. It does not happen by chance. It happens because of our choices and actions. And each day we are given new opportunities to choose and act and, in doing so, we create our own unique journey." Keep going...



Happiness keeps you Sweet, Trials keep you Strong, Sorrows keep you Human, Failures keep you humble , Success keeps You Glowing, but Only almighty keeps You Going!



Trust

Trust

Trust is a generating energy and puts the power of your mind towards positive outcomes.

I’m not talking about naivety or trusting where it’s inappropriate, however.



Trust in yourself.

Trust in the love the universe has for you.

Trust in the power of your heart’s desires and your intentions.

Trust in your love, goodness and capabilities.

Trust in your power as a creator.

Trust in the positive outcome of your goal.
Trust in the healing power of love.

Trust that you are on a co-creative journey, that there is a bigger picture, and that there is love, help and guidance available to you in every moment.

Trust that the universe wants you to have what you desire as much as you do.

Trust that you are loved more than you know, more than you will ever know!

Life doesn’t have to be a struggle. You can have what you desire with belief, intention, positive expectation, and a willingness to receive.

Trust brings with it a greater sense of ease, faith and confidence, and lessens your desire to control or have things be a certain way, allowing life to manifest in a way that most serves you.

If there is an area of your life you are fearful or doubtful around, lean into trust, get a sense of it, embrace it, let it embrace and carry you.

You deserve the best, ever and always, whether you realise that or not. The universe wants the best for you in every moment. You are the only one who can stand in your way.

Be kind and loving to yourself, and let the winds of trust take you to beautiful realities and desired outcomes.

Trust the turning of the tide. Have faith and hope in your heart. Hold bright visions of the future you desire to create, make positive choices for yourself and commit to those through action.

Release your dreams and visions into the world. Trust, believe, open to receive and expect their materialization in your world in the highest and best way for you!

Trust in the flow, it only ever wants the best for you you know

Saturday, March 17, 2012

YOU are the magic!

Abundance isn’t something you ‘get’, it’s something you allow, open to & receive.”


You are the SOURCE of your abundance.



You are the creator of your reality, you are one the one that shapes and dictates energy into form, into physical manifestation, through your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, attitudes, choices, decisions, and imagination.



YOU are the magic!



Reality is made of energy. Money is energy. Everything is energy.


You start to get a sense of just how abundant you truly are.




You really CAN, and certainly do deserve to live an abundant life.



The limits really are only those within your mind, for it is your mind, rather like the film and projector, that manifests reality (the screen), however real, solid and separate from you that reality may seem to be.



To live abundantly it is key to understand that YOU are the SOURCE.



And that there already is total abundance, more abundance than you could ever fathom!

When you are in the energy of abundance, however, you receive with ease. You also allow yourself to let go, knowing that your cup with always be refilled. You experience a wonderful in-and-out flow of energies.




You live in a limitless, infinitely abundant universe. The more you realise that, the more you will allow yourself to receive and create through intending, desiring and dreaming, through asking, believing, imagining and receiving.

Gratitude is a generating energy and attracts more of ANYTHING in general, as well as more of that which you feel grateful for specifically.




When you feel grateful for all that you love in your life, and that which brings you joy – past or present – you naturally attract more of the same!



Gratitude always leads to positive outcomes, is ever available, and will not only uplift you and others, but will open you to more of all that your heart desires in magical ways.

Love lights the way to the abundant pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.




Be aware of what you truly love and enjoy and invite more of it into your life, whether it’s career related or not – perhaps it’s a creative hobby, passion or interest, for example. Let it ignite your passion and raise your energy, which in itself will attract more success and abundance into your life.



Listen to your heart and let its joy and pleasure guide you on the path to dreams-come-true, to an abundant and rich life in all ways.

Choose positive beliefs around abundance and any area you feel limited in, and positive beliefs about yourself too for matter.



Your beliefs are the filters through which you create your reality. They are not the truth, merely perceptions of the truth, often hidden agreements about the way things are that you can CHANGE and change your reality as a result.












Let it go?

The concept seems so simple – just let it go and trust the Universe – right?


Sure, simple in concept – but then our emotions kick in and the idea of 'letting it go' gets thrown out the window.


Why do we struggle to 'Let it go'?


The plain and simple answer is that even though we want to trust the Universe, we feel much more likely to achieve what we desire if we stay in the driver seat. It is human instinct to clutch and hold and control. When we operate from the conscious mind we operate from the knowledge of 'What is true' in our physical world. BUT – you already know that the conscious mind is just the tip of the iceberg and 'What is true' in our physical world is ONLY what SEEMS to be true.

Ask yourself "What if my subconscious mind and the Universe know EXACTLY how to bring about anything I desire, even if my conscious mind has no idea how?"


Seriously, what if that is true?


"If it is true that my subconscious mind and the Universe know EXACTLY how to bring about anything I desire – am I free to let go how it is going to happen?"



if you knew that your subconscious and Universe had it all taken care of, you would have no problem letting go – you would willingly surrender because you would KNOW that you were going to be taken care of.


Now, what if this is true?

What if you realized that, every time you stop trusting, and start trying to figure out 'how' and control the outcome – you actually set your subconscious mind back in its job of manifesting everything you desire? Would you get out of the way then?

Of course you would! If you knew this with certainty, you would make it your job to get out of the way of your subconscious.

Your subconscious mind DOES know exactly how to bring you everything you desire. Your subconscious mind knows how to access Universal energy and manifest anything. Anytime you 'hold on', 'force it' or 'try to figure out how' – you get in the way of the process.

There are 2 great ways to tap into your history for this –

Think of a time in your life when you wanted something and did let go how it was going to happen (this often happens when we are too busy or are too focused on something else) – and then it showed up in your life without you ever trying to 'make it happen'.

Think of a time in your life when you REALLY wanted (or felt you needed) something and you tried to do everything to make it happen and then finally out of fatigue or frustration you just 'gave up trying' – and then it showed up in your life.

Once you have given yourself some proof from your past – letting go becomes easier and makes much more sense to your rational mind.
Any time you find yourself trying to figure out how you can 'make' something happen – stop and say this to your subconscious mind…

"Subconscious, I know you know EXACTLY how to bring me all of the right people, opportunities and situations to bring about [NAME YOUR DESIRE HERE] or better in my life – and I know that my job is to pay attention to the people and opportunities and situations that show up and listen to your guidance so that the inspired action I can take to assist you becomes clear."

Try it – you will be amazed at all of the amazing things that start to show up in your life!



















































Friday, March 16, 2012

Never give up

Never give up on your goals.


Believe in yourself and believe that you can and will succeed.

Keep pushing forward.

Keep doing different things to achieve your goals.

You're on the verge of success.
You're about to achieve your goals.

That's why you can't give up.

If you give up nothing changes. ...You end up with guaranteed failure when you give up.


Succeeding isn't about doing the same thing over and over again and hoping for a different result.
That's insanity. ............Keep doing what you can to achieve your goals.


Stay focused. Dismiss distractions. Overcome barriers.
Don't let setbacks stop you. Don't let distractions throw you off course.
Keep your mind and subconscious mind focused on what you want to achieve.

Your mind will try to convince you to give up. It's only because your mind is used to having things a certain way and is comfortable with failure.

But failure isn't good enough. .......Success can be scary, it's not in your comfort zone.
It's not what your mind is used to. ........Your mind can't relate to it, so it tries to keep you in the zone that it knows, which is failure.

And so you give up. You don't try a different option.
You refuse to keep an open mind. But really it's just your mind convincing you to give up.

Just so it can go back to what it knows best, what it's comfortable with, which is failure.

But you don't want failure. You want success.
So you have to push your mind in a different direction.
You have to direct your subconscious mind and your inner powers to create success.

And that means trying different things even when you feel like giving up.
Don't fall for the mind's little tricks.

Don't think you know everything (no one really knows everything). Be open to all possibilities.
Be willing to learn and try something new.

You're learning new things everyday so keep growing. ...If you want to be successful, if you want to achieve
your goals, then you have to try doing something different so that you get a different result.

You have to go beyond your comfort zone, consider all options, be willing to learn something new, stay open minded and don't assume you know everything.

You no longer allow yourself to give up before even getting started.

You instruct your subconscious mind and inner powers to bring you success.

You're telling them that you're ready for success. That you're willing to learn, grow and experience new things. You're giving your subconscious mind new instructions, so that it drives you to succeed.

You can achieve your goals.. Try a different approach. Be willing to learn something new.
Search for new solutions. Stay persistent and change your approach.
Create beliefs that help you succeed.

To succeed you have to believe that you can achieve your goal.
Your subconscious mind picks up on your beliefs and creates your reality based on what you believe.
So if you are persistent and believe that you have tried everything and can't succeed then your subconscious is not going to direct you to new solutions.
It will only guide you to situations that will lead to more failure, after all, that's what you believe.

What can you do?

Change your beliefs

To change your beliefs first change your thoughts. Track your current thoughts and change those that don't work for you.

If you don't believe there is a way, change that belief, and regularly tell yourself that there is a way.
Then begin looking for a new way to achieve your goal.
Try a different approach.

Never Give up. If you give up nothing changes and you never achieve the success that you want.
Try a different approach. Keep an open mind.
Be willing to learn something new.
Don't believe that you know everything.
Don't believe that you have tried everything.
Focus on finding new solutions and stay persistent.







Thursday, March 15, 2012

DON'T ACT LIKE AN ELEPHANT!

DON'T ACT LIKE AN ELEPHANT!



In India, elephants are used for manual labor. When an elephant is small and weighs approximately 200 pounds, it is securely tied with a heavy-duty rope. In between 'jobs' the elephant tries to break through its limitation. The calf whines, tugs, and even tries to chew through the rope-but it is unable to break free.


Finally, the elephant gives up its will and accepts his circumstances. The elephant believes there is absolutely no chance to free himself and overcome his limitation. In doing so, he misses out on his defining moment.


A defining moment is the exact moment one adopts or accepts a new belief that drastically transforms their life. They accept this new belief as a new truth, regardless if it is true or not. Because the brain accepts repetition of thought and deduction as 'the truth,' the rope reigns sovereign not only in the calf's immediate environment, but in his mind as well.

With this belief deeply embedded in the elephant's mind, his handler came up with an ingenious idea to permanently disempower him. He realized all that was needed was to tie the four-ton animal up with extremely small ropes and he would remain tied. You see in the elephant's mind, any size rope would keep him securely confined.



Don't act like an elephant. Size up and break through the confining ropes in your mind. When you're faced with change, change your perspective. When you're overwhelmed with something new; change your view. Use affirmations, to eradicate limitations and nothing will be impossible for you!



What begins in your Mind.....

Your worries create their own fulfillment. But you don’t have to worry about that, because you can let those worries go.


Your fears bring you closer toward whatever you fear. But do not fear such a scenario, because you have the ability to let those fears go.

Your thoughts do not end when you finish thinking them. They continue to echo through your life in ways you may not even realize.


So fill your mind with thoughts of gratitude for the abundance you already enjoy. That abundance will most certainly grow as a result.


When you feel doubt, or fear, or anger, or frustration, know that you can let it go just as surely as you can pull your hand away from a painful sensation. Keep your life focused on the goodness, on the positive possibilities and on your most treasured dreams.


What begins in your mind ends up in your life. Think continually of the way you most would like to be, and your reality will reliably fall in line.







Tuesday, March 13, 2012

You are more than ............

You are more than the mood you happen to be holding in your mind. You are the person who is capable of controlling that mood. You are more than the thoughts you are thinking. You are the thinker of those thoughts, able to decide what they will be.




Your mood is not determined by anything that happens outside of you, but rather by how you choose to interpret and respond to what is going on. Just as you can decide what words to say and what actions to take, so too can you decide what thoughts to think and what moods to feel.

You are gloriously free to think and feel in empowering, life-affirming ways, no matter what other limitations may hold you back. Spend just one hour feeling energized and effective when you otherwise would have felt tired and dejected, and see for yourself what a difference it can make.


Though there are always plenty of perfectly good reasons to feel lousy, there are many more reasons to feel great. Go ahead, sit up straight, take a deep breath, put a smile on your face and make yourself vastly more effective.






Monday, March 12, 2012

You keep thinking about it ................................

You keep thinking about it ................................and every time you think about it your stomach turns Maybe You get upset
Maybe You get angry

You feel like somebody stole something from you
How dare they do that
How could you be so foolish
How could you make such a mistake

You keep beating yourself up and you don't know why Your mind gets filled with negative thoughts
You keep hanging on.
Thinking about it over and over again.
You can't sleep.
You want to do something but don't know what.
You just keep hanging on to those memories.
You keep thinking about what happened.
You keep beating yourself up...
The negative thoughts keep coming...

You just can't let go...

But you CAN let go. ............And you CAN move on.
You CAN stop beating yourself up
You CAN get rid of those negative thoughts.
You're only hanging on to the past and those memories because your mind doesn't know any better.
It doesn't have anything else to think about.


You get all those negative thoughts because that's what your mind is used to thinking about - it simply doesn't know any better.

You want things to change.
You want things to get better.
And they will.

As soon as you take charge of your mind and get rid of those negative thoughts you'll change your life.
You'll gain more confidence.
You'll believe in yourself.
You'll achieve all your goals.
You'll enjoy your life.
You'll make more money
You'll be happy.

But that will only happen when you get rid of the negative thoughts and begin filling your mind with new, positive thoughts.
Those thoughts of worry, doubt, fear, and anger cripple you.
They don't allow you to succeed.
They hold you back.
Now you need to change those thoughts.
Fill your mind with positive thoughts.

Direct your subconscious to bring you what you want. Take charge of your life and being enjoying it today
Your subconscious mind creates your life based on your thoughts and beliefs.


Positive thoughts create positive beliefs.
Positive beliefs create a positive life.
Simple and powerful.

It's been proven over and over again. But for some reason you can't get your mind to stay positive.
Those negative thoughts and negative beliefs still dominate your mind and life.

It's only because you haven't taken charge of your mind and actively directed your subconscious mind.
So start by eliminating the negative thoughts.
Fill your mind with positive thoughts.
Think about why you can do something.
How you can succeed.
Why you can move forward.
With practice you'll get better.

The more often you get rid of those negative thoughts the better life gets. That means you have to do this everyday.

Professional athletes practice everyday - even during their off-season. They do everything they can to stay in shape. They go through numerous exercises and routines.
They keep doing the same thing over and over again, and they do this for years.
It's a way of life for them and that's why they're so successful.

You have to keep your mind and subconscious mind in shape.
That means you have to practice everyday.
So get rid of those negative thoughts everyday.

Negative thoughts will destroy your life.

Negative beliefs create more misery, struggle and unhappiness.
Get rid of the negative thoughts today.

Create positive and empowering beliefs today.
Believe in yourself.

You can and will achieve all your goals when you believe...





Sunday, March 11, 2012

Life gets Better

This day, with all its problems, frustrations and disappointments, is nonetheless a great and magnificent treasure. It is filled with positive possibilities, and you are here to choose and to fulfill the best of them.

Have the courage to see and to acknowledge just how uniquely beautiful you are. And have the courage to fully live that beauty for all the world to see.

Every day, life gets better. Because every day adds more substance to the outstanding experience of life.


On some days it may seem like your life is falling behind instead of getting better. But that’s just because you fail to consider the real value that is always building within you.

At some point you’ll come to appreciate and even treasure the setbacks and disappointments. For although they are painful, they give you the opportunity to grow stronger.

The difficulties are blessings that haven’t fully developed. The joys are well-deserved rewards that encourage you to keep moving forward.

No matter how good life has been, it is getting even better. No matter what challenges may push against you, each moment brings more of life’s goodness.

Feel that goodness as it accumulates in your experience. And live the possibilities that become more rich and meaningful with each dawning day.






 





 

"Our life is the creation of our mind."

Most people keep thinking the same kind of thoughts, and visualize the same mental images in an unconscious automatic manner.
You can change the thoughts and images in your mind, which is equivalent to inserting a new software into the computer of the mind. As thoughts create events and circumstances, by changing the habitual thoughts, life's events and circumstances change too.


The ability of silencing the mind is the key to the switch of the mind, enabling us to turn it on and off as we wish. When we are able to switch it off at will, we experience serenity of mind, strength, confidence and happiness. When the mind and its thoughts are quiet, we are able to use the mind in a most effective way.

 At this stage, we become the boss of the mind.

Conquering the mind

A strong power of concentration makes it easier to free the mind from thoughts.
The mind is responsible for everything that happens. It is the creator of everything in the world. The world is dependent on the mind for its existence. When in deep sleep with no dreams, are you conscious of the world? Is someone in a swoon, conscious of the world? No, consciousness of the world happens only when the mind is active. In deep meditation, when the mind is quiet the world seems to disappear.

When you master your mind, you master your world. When you are able to silence the mind, you free yourself of negative habits and attitudes. Then the mind cannot influence the way you feel, your moods, and your behavior.
When you can silence the mind, at least for a while, you realize that you are not the mind.
While working towards this inner state, the mind usually suggests all kinds of reasons and excuses why it is better not to bring it under control. It wants to be free and roam wherever it likes. It believes that if it is silenced, life will cease to be. It cannot accept that life can go on without its incessant chatter and inner dialogues. It is false logic, as the mind cannot know what is beyond it. The moment it is silenced it does not participate in what happens after this silence. Then how can it experience a state in which it is absent? It cannot think about a state it has never experienced.

There is no vacuum in nature. When the mind is made quiet, something "new" steps in. It is the Universal Consciousness, Spirit, the creative power, your "inner I". You can call it whatever you want. It is a power that has always existed, and it is in us, it is us. It is our true Consciousness, which we have forgotten.


The Power of Thoughts

If you keep thinking about difficulties, fears and failure your life will mirror these thoughts. If you keep thinking about your current circumstances you will keep recreating them.
You can change your thoughts and choose the thoughts you want. This will change your life. You can right now start to think in a different way and paint new, beautiful, and positive images in your mind. You can refuse to look at the old pictures and scenes that fill your mind. You can look at the mental pictures of your choice, even if your actual circumstances are very different from these mental images.

You have a projection room in your mind, and you can choose which film to play. In the inner room of your mind, you can hang the pictures and paintings of your own choice. Does a feeling of power surge through you now, as you read these lines? You can master your life!

Thoughts are the inner strings that pull circumstances and situations. You can be the one pulling these strings and make your life happier and more satisfying. When you are the boss of your mind you have the power to improve your inner and emotional life, relationships and your material and financial status.

Some make a mediocre change; some go to the extreme.......Your ability, and how far you go is dependent on how free you are from being the slave of the mind and subject to its tyranny, and the extent of your ability to choose your thoughts and change the contents of your mind.

Becoming the boss of your mind enables you to think about what you want, when you want to. You stop being influenced by outside forces, and become a partner in the creation of your life.


When you rise above your mind, you will be able to recognize it as it is, a tool for your use.





Friday, March 9, 2012

Tremendous power in you..........

You're more powerful than you think.


That's because you have a tremendous power within... a power that when directed correctly will help you make more money, meet the right person, enjoy greater success and allow you to enjoy life as you become
more confident everyday.

It's your inner power... that powerful force within you that's connected to your subconscious mind.

Once you work with it correctly you'll begin enjoy greater success, happiness and live a life filled with passion and confidence.

You and everybody around you has the same special power.
To get this awesome power that you have working for you you first have to direct your subconscious mind to attract the people, situations and circumstances that will help you create the changes or improvements you want.

Then you need to change how you see things and how you see yourself. That means putting an end to the constant negative self talk or negative chatter that goes on inside your head.

If you want to be successful then see yourself as someone who can be successful.

You also have to give yourself positive encouragement. You're never going to be successful if you only focus on what's wrong with you or why you can't do something.

If you want to be in a healthy, loving and caring relationship, then you have to see yourself as someone who can be in a loving, caring relationship.

You can no longer accept any limiting or negative thoughts and beliefs about yourself.
If you keep the negative statements you have your Power Within working against you.

Because it will create what you don't want.
For example: if you say it's too difficult to do something, your power within will make it difficult for you to achieve what you want.

Start using your Power Within to achieve your goals. Begin eliminating those negative thoughts and limiting beliefs.
Start believing in yourself and your ability.
Get your subconscious mind working for you so that you live the life you want now


Only you can determine your own success.

It doesn't matter if people around you are negative.
You don't need encouragement and support from friends or family. You only need to believe and see yourself as someone who is capable of being successful. Because you can accomplish what ever they want... when you believe you can.

Once you do that, once you raise the bar a little higher, once you believe that you can and will accomplish your goals you'll be on your way to greater success.
You'll also be directing subconscious mind to bring you opportunities for you to succeed, make more money, meet the right person and make the right choices.

So don't believe the excuses or reasons that your mind gives you.

Take a look at where you are today and decide what kind of life you want to live.
Start seeing yourself as successful in every aspect of your life.
Once you see yourself as successful you will be able to direct your mind and subconscious mind and start using your power within to help you achieve your goals.
New opportunities will begin to pop into your life everyday.

You'll meet people who can help you in ways you never thought possible.
You'll be working with your power within, unleashing it so that you create the life you want.

So focus on what you want.
Decide what you want.
Be clear and specific because you'll be attracting more and more of what you want, and less of what you don't want.

Unleash your power within by focusing on what you really want.
Eliminate the negative thoughts and replace them with powerful, positive thoughts.
Create beliefs that catapult you to success.

Start directing your power within to create the life you want today!!!!








Sunday, March 4, 2012

Success is easy... when you...........

Success is easy...
when you're programmed for success. It all gets easier when your mind and subconscious mind
are programmed to create more and more success.
When you look at some of the most successful people you'll find that they've programmed themselves for success.
They've got their mind and subconscious mind focused on success. They only see success, even when they experience failure, they just focus on what ever success they have.
They turn negative situations into positive situations. They'll even find something positive in each failure.
It's that kind of optimistic and positive attitude that allows them to succeed.
So just how did they develop that kind of attitude?

They trained their mind and directed their subconscious mind to focus on the success and not the failure.
They've conditioned themselves to learn from mistakes that lead to failure, improve and push forward.
you are meant to succeed, in fact you're born to succeed.


But in order to succeed and appreciate your success there will be failures. That's okay. Just don't dwell on them.
Learn from them and move forward.
Focus on any small success so you create more success energy.

Success energy attracts more success energy.


That same success energy brings you the people that will help you create more success. You end up creating a positive cycle that allows you to have success after success.

When you focus on the failures you create a failure energy. When you have failure energy you attract more failures and you surround yourself with people who will only help you fail or constantly point out your failures and shortfalls.

Create success energy by focusing on the success. Direct your mind and subconscious mind to concentrate on the success and learn from past mistakes or failures.

Here's a quote from a great athlete that really drives home my point:

"I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game's winning shot... and missed.
And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And this is why...I succeed."

Who is this person?
MICHAEL JORDAN - perhaps the greatest basketball player of our time. He won 6 championships.
Played in 14 All star Games and holds numerous titles and records, too many to list here.

He learns from his mistakes, focuses on the success, and keeps his mind focused on doing his best.

Successful people focus on their success and develop a positive, healthy attitude. No setback is great enough to stop them.

Thomas Edison failed over 1,000 times before he finally found the right combination of elements
to make a light bulb work.

He learned from his failures. He used his failures as a benchmark, and avoided repeating them.
He improved on his failures. And HE NEVER GAVE UP!


Too many people give up just when their on the verge of success.
Why?

Because that's what you're used to doing. That's what your mind and subconscious mind are used to doing.
That's your method of living, when things gets tough, you give up and later try to start again.
Always hoping that success will come but youmake the same mistakes because your subconscious

is programmed for failure.

It doesn't have to be that way.
Program yourself for success.
Re-program your mind and subconscious mind so that you are tuned to success.
Every setback or failure contains an opportunity for you to learn, improve and grow.


Nobody ever taught you how to think and succeed. Nobody ever taught you how to instruct the awesome power of your subconscious mind.
Now there is a way.
Now........... you can create the success you want.
You can turn failure into success.

You can live your dreams.
You can attract success.
You can manifest abundance.
You are a powerful human being